Should I Love An Unfaithful Man?

Should I love an unfaithful man? How many times do you keep asking yourself this question? Surprisingly, this is a very hard question to answer. The answer isn't as cut and dry as many people would want it to be.


The truth of the matter is if you love him, you will continue to love him. A part of you will always love that part of him that existed before he became the cheating monster that he is today. A part of you will always be in love with him. And yes, probably all of your heart, mind body and soul will always love him.


Love has nothing to do with the equation. If you didn't love him you wouldn't be asking the question. The question should be "I love an unfaithful man. How do I proceed from here?" This is because no matter what you decide to do, you will always love him.


That's not the point. The point is can you continue to stay with him. Can you continue to be by his side when he is unfaithful? Can you find it in your heart to forgive him if he stops cheating and commits to rebuilding your relationship? Can you find it in your heart to stay with him even if he continues to cheat? Are you finally leaving him after putting up with years of his cheating?


You see, the question isn't whether or not you should love an unfaithful man. Because if you love him, you will continue to do so even if you decide to forgive him or leave him. Sadly enough, just because he cheated does not mean that you do not love him anymore. It just means that you have to make some decisions about how you are going to handle his cheating and your love for him. In the end, only you can really answer the question as to whether or not you should love an unfaithful man.