Do you have a remorseless cheating husband? You have decided to forgive your husband for cheating; however, he seems to be nonchalant about the whole thing. In fact, he acts like he is doing you a favor? I hate to say it, but you are in for a rude awakening if you think that he is going to change his cheating ways.
Why Is He Acting This Way?
If anything, he should be extremely kind and attentive during this phrase of your relationship. Since your cheating unfaithful husband seems to think that his actions don't require any type of forgiveness on his part, this may be an indication of how he is going to behave in the future. It may actually indicate that he doesn't intend to change his cheating habits. If he isn't kissing the ground that you walk on, then you might need to question his future intentions.
Does He Need a Moment?
Until your husband acknowledges what he has done wrong and actually feels sorry for the pain that his actions have caused, this is no hope for your marriage. It may be that your husband needs some time for all of the drama to finally settle down. After all, he was just recently busted for cheating on you. Everything may just seem surreal to him at the moment.
Did You Make The Wrong Decision To Forgive Him?
However, if he does not snap out of this remorseless behavior within in a short period of time, then you might need to rethink your exit strategy. Did you agree to forgive him too soon? Did you really make him work for your forgiveness? Maybe you gave in too quickly.
If you have a tendency to give in too quickly, then he knows this and won't make an effort to change his ways. It's almost as if he already knows the script and is just going through the motions in order to get you off of his back for a little while. Once the coast is clear, he is going to go back to his cheating ways.
Talk to Your Husband
Make him talk to you. If he is not able to talk to you then maybe you need to seek the advice or information of a professional marriage counselor. One way or another, you must decide if you made the right decision and if you are going to continue in the relationship.
Why Is He Acting This Way?
If anything, he should be extremely kind and attentive during this phrase of your relationship. Since your cheating unfaithful husband seems to think that his actions don't require any type of forgiveness on his part, this may be an indication of how he is going to behave in the future. It may actually indicate that he doesn't intend to change his cheating habits. If he isn't kissing the ground that you walk on, then you might need to question his future intentions.
Does He Need a Moment?
Until your husband acknowledges what he has done wrong and actually feels sorry for the pain that his actions have caused, this is no hope for your marriage. It may be that your husband needs some time for all of the drama to finally settle down. After all, he was just recently busted for cheating on you. Everything may just seem surreal to him at the moment.
Did You Make The Wrong Decision To Forgive Him?
However, if he does not snap out of this remorseless behavior within in a short period of time, then you might need to rethink your exit strategy. Did you agree to forgive him too soon? Did you really make him work for your forgiveness? Maybe you gave in too quickly.
If you have a tendency to give in too quickly, then he knows this and won't make an effort to change his ways. It's almost as if he already knows the script and is just going through the motions in order to get you off of his back for a little while. Once the coast is clear, he is going to go back to his cheating ways.
Talk to Your Husband
Make him talk to you. If he is not able to talk to you then maybe you need to seek the advice or information of a professional marriage counselor. One way or another, you must decide if you made the right decision and if you are going to continue in the relationship.
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