So what do you think? Do you think that an unfaithful man can change? Do you think that a cheating man has the capability of changing his ways? Or, do you believe that once a cheater always a cheater?
I think that when it comes to a cheating unfaithful man, it can most definitely go either way. It all depends on the situation. Quite naturally, depending on how a cheater views women in general, a cheating man might actually stop cheating and become faithful again. For example, if you are the type of woman that allows cheating and looks the other way each and every time that your man cheats, then he is going to continue to cheat. Why would he change? But sadly enough, if you have the type of man that is a born cheater, then he might not be capable of changing his cheating ways.
What does this mean? You won't really know until he cheats. Of course, if you do nothing, then he isn't going to change. That is a fact. You won't know if he is willing change until you let it be known that you will not tolerate his cheating under any circumstances
Now, this should not be confused with yelling at your cheating unfaithful man and throwing things when he returns home from a "night on the town." If your nightly bitching session is just followed by a daily kiss and make up session, then you haven't really done anything to change the situation. You are reacting, but you are not backing up your actions with anything that will make him stop cheating.
Yes, I know that he is a grown man. You have no control over his actions, but you do have control over your own actions. You should not tolerate mistreatment. And yes, he will continue to cheat and disrespect you if you let him. Until you demand better treatment, you won't get better treatment. Most importantly, if he is not willing to give you better treatment, then the question of whether or not your unfaithful man can change has already been answered. So, you have the power to initiate the change. Don't be afraid!