Dealing With Your Feelings While Staying with a Cheater

You were cheated on. You just can't seem to stomach this fact. So why are you still with him? For some reason, you are still with him. You have your own personal reasons for doing so. You have made your decisions to stay with him. However, how do you stop beating yourself up for staying with him after he did such a terrible thing to you.

Once again, you have your reasons for staying with him. You can't reverse this decision at this point in time. But, you do need to come to terms with your feelings. Stop beating yourself up for having to make this tough decision. I am quite sure you had to have a very good reason for continuing to stay with your cheater.

We won't go into your reasons for staying with your cheater, they aren't important at this time. Your feelings are important at this time. You shouldn't feel like slime just because you made the decision to stay with your cheater.

What are you feeling? What bothers you the most about the nightmare that your cheating unfaithful man has put your through? Are you having the worst time dealing with feelings or hate? Or are they of love? Are you mad because you have to stay with someone that you absolutely dispise and don't respect? Or are you mad at yourself because somewhere in the back of your mind, you are hoping that your cheating unfaithful man will change and come to his senses? Or, are you wondering whether you made the right decision when you agreed to forgive him in the first place?

Try to understand why you are feeling what you are feeling. If you can change the things that are making you feel bad,then change them. If you can't change or have control over what is making you feel bad, then you will have to learn how to overcome this....and fast.