What Does Your Unfaithful Man Consider Cheating?

What does your unfaithful man consider cheating? Have you and your man ever had a casual conversation about what constitutes cheating? Amazingly, this might be where the problem exists. The two of you might have different definitions of cheating.

Yeah, I know that this might seem like a crazy insight. Yeah, I know that everyone over the age of 12 knows what the international definition of cheating is, but you know that your man changes the definition when it comes to him. He is not stupid. He knows the correct definition of cheating. He just wants to know if he can rationalize and get away with his "extended" definition of cheating.

Besides, if he were to ever think that you were cheating, the correct and traditional definition would always apply. He thinks that you are cheating if you look at another man let alone sleep with one. Men don't like to think of their women as cheating. The same men that continuously cheat on their women would never stand for these women to do the same thing to them. They have become accustomed to your being at home waiting for them with a big smile and closed legs. They could never handle the turmoil that goes along with deciphering cheating signs.

• Does he consider it cheating if he has lunch with a female co-worker when other co-workers aren't around?


• Does he consider it cheating if he is online chatting with another female?


• Does he consider it cheating if he gets a "private" lap dance at the local strip club?


• Does he consider it cheating if he sends emails to his ex on a constant basis?

What do you think? Are these things cheating in your mind? Does it make you upset to think that he might actually be doing these things?

Let's fast forward........how would he feel if you were doing these things? Would he think that you were cheating on him? Interesting.....amazing how the definition always changes.