He Wasn't Always a Cheater

He wasn’t always a cheating unfaithful man. Once upon a time he was a good man. Times were good and you loved each other very much. In the beginning, the two of you were inseparable. You would sit and talk for hours about the silliest of things. No matter what it was about, he listened. Even during those times in high school when you complained about how unfair your parents were for grounding you. He listened and held your hand while you cried. Both of you knew that you shouldn't have stayed out past midnight, but he listened and consoled you anyway.

He wasn’t always a cheating unfaithful man. Once upon a time he was a good man. The two of you graduated from high school and went away to college together. Your parents tried to separate the two of you, but you knew deep down in your heart that the two of you were meant to be together forever. You didn't have a clue as to what you wanted to major in, but you knew that you had to be with him. You decided to attend his college of choice. It really didn't matter to you because you knew that he would have done the same for you if the shoe had been on the other foot.

He wasn’t always a cheating unfaithful man. Once upon a time he was a good man. You felt like a fairy tale princess when he put that gorgeous two carat diamond ring on your finger and asked you to marry him. Every girl on campus wanted to be with him. However, you were the lucky woman that he chose to be his wife. Your engagement was a wonderful blur. The wedding was exquisite. Your dress was covered in pearls and crystal. The diamonds in your tiara sparkled in the candlelight. There wasn't a dry eye in the chapel. Your reception was planned to perfection. Your honeymoon in Spain was relaxing and romantic. And of course, the morning, noon and night sex was totally mind bending.

He wasn’t always a cheating unfaithful man. Once upon a time he was a good man. You loved being in the kitchen learning how to cook for your insatiable husband. He was so appreciative. He would eat everything that you made...even the burned and black items that you left a little too long in the oven. He knew how much time and effort you put into each meal. You managed to cook, clean and take care of your three children on a grueling schedule. You were a pro. You didn’t mind. You loved taking care of your family.

He wasn’t always a cheating unfaithful man. Once upon a time he was a good man. You loved the way he valued your opinion and sought your advice about the smallest of details in his life. You were a work at home mom who dabbled in a few hobbies on the side, but you knew that you provided an essential part of your home life together.

He wasn’t always a cheating unfaithful man. Once upon a time he was a good man. No matter the conflict, the two of you connected and loved each other dearly. You were still able to capture the magic from your high school and college days. Your marriage was wonderful. The sex was delicious. Life was grand...

He wasn’t always a cheating unfaithful man. Once upon a time he was a good man...until that day. That was the day that everything changed within your heart, body, mind and soul. That was the dreadful day that the man of your dreams rewrote the definition of forever. That was the day when the words love and trust no longer had any meaning to you. That was the day you realized that your handsome adorable husband was indeed a cheating unfaithful man.