Is He Really Cheating?

Is your man cheating on you? You are starting to ask yourself this question more and more everyday. You should trust your husband, but something just does not seem the same. You can't really explain what is going on, but some of the patterns of your normal life are a little different.

Times change! Fashions Change! Things Change! Should you be worried? You know that things cannot always stay the same. But wait a minute. That should not apply to love and marriage. Yes, a good marriage should be able to endure change and growth. Maybe you are just imagining things. Do you really have a cheating unfaithful man?

You've noticed that he is starting to work later and later. Many times this is innocent enough. You can't accuse him of cheating on you because of this. Can you? You don't want to be one of those wives that won't let her husband out of the door without questioning him about his actions. However, you want to know what is going on. So you ask him about his changed work schedule. He says that there is a major project going on at work. He has to be there in order to ensure its completion. After all, he is a Project Manager. Why should you doubt him?

You don't want to put thoughts of cheating, infidelity or affairs in your mind without at least having a lead to warrant it. Right now the only thing that you have to go on is a change in routine. There is a change in your sex lives as well. When he gets home, he is too tired from the late hours to have sex. This makes sense. It sounds innocent enough. You should understand this. Right? Maybe. However, you have never known him to not want sex.

For right now, you are just going to chill and see if any other patterns start to develop. You don't want to become paranoid and accuse your husband of cheating based upon frivolous things. Just wait for now. If he is cheating, the moment will present itself. For right now, you can't say if your man is cheating on you.