HE Cheated | Why Are YOU Suffering In Silence?

Why are you suffering in silence? You're in pain, but for personal reasons you refuse to talk to family and friends about how your man is cheating on you. Accept it. He cheated. My heart goes out to you. However, you really shouldn't cope with this alone.


What are you afraid of....really? Are you too embarrassed to admit that your man cheated on you? I'll let you in on a little secret. You aren't the first woman that this has happened to and you won't be the last. I don't mean to sound cold and heartless, but it's the truth. Men have been cheating on their wives and girlfriends since the beginning of time. From what I've seen lately, it's not going to change anytime soon.


Don't be embarrassed. If anything, you could learn a thing or two from women that have suffered before you. You could learn how they handled the pain and found the strength to stay with their cheating men. Say What? You would NEVER stay with a cheating man? Don't say NEVER...say never. Cheating is still the same game, but with different players and out of control rules.

I bet if you were to open up to a close family member, she would tell you how she experienced the exact same thing and how she coped with her cheating husband. I bet you didn't know that Uncle Robert cheated on Aunt Jean 15 years ago. Wow, you always thought that Aunt Jean was the type of woman that would knock Uncle Robert over the head with a frying pan if he even "thought" about cheating on her. She actually stayed with him? There's GOT to be a story.

You didn't see that one coming. Why ? This is because there are plenty of women just like your Aunt Jean who suffered in silence. They are too proud to tell anyone about their cheating men. Don't do the same thing. Why would you want to protect a cheating man's BS cheating ways? Open up and talk to a family member or friend. However, make sure that you pick the right confidant based upon the following:

• Make sure this person is capable of keeping your most intimate secret a secret. You really don't want to hear about your dirty laundry at your next hair and nail appointment.

• Make sure this person is unbiased when giving opinions. She should be open-minded and able to give you an honest and truthful opinion at all times. In addition, she must be able to tell you what you need to hear and not what you want to hear.

• Make sure this person is not a bitter individual with relationship baggage. You need positive strategies for your negative situation. Suffering in silence would actually be a better alternative than receiving advice from this type of person.

You still can't believe that your Uncle Robert cheated. How could that even be possible? He and Aunt Jean have always seemed so happy together. Aunt Jean is such a good woman. Well, it seems like your Uncle Robert finally came to his senses and realized the same thing. He made a huge mistake, but people can change for better or worst. Sound familiar?

You aren't the first or only woman who has had a cheating unfaithful man. Don't be embarrassed. Let someone else help you get a grip and cope with your cheating man.