Who Are The Male Influences in Your Cheating Man's Life?

In a previous post I asked have you met your cheater's mother? In this post, I want you to think about the males that influence your cheating man. Have you met the men that are in your cheating man's life? A man learns a lot about life from his father, uncles, brothers and friends. These are the people that can influence his opinion about women and cheating.


Now everyone has family members and friends that they completely disagree with on many topics. But the following are ways in which a cheating unfaithful man can greatly be influenced by the male figures in his life.


First, do you know how his father treats his mother? Is he or was he faithful to her? This might seem like a silly question, but most families have little dark secrets that come out at family functions after a few bottles of wine. These little tidbits of information can help you understand the mindset of your cheating man. In some families, infidelity is a little secret that is swept under the rug. If youf cheating man came from one of these family types, then he is aware of and has been exposed to cheating relationships. Not all men will follow in the same footsteps, but the chances are very high that they will. If your cheating man is always around men who talk about cheating as if it is a right of passage into manhood, then he is going to be desensitized to the fact that cheating is morally wrong.


Second, have you met your cheating unfaithful man's friends? His peers are the ones that can influence him the most. If they think that cheating is okay, then your man is going to think the same thing. Once you get past high school and college , people usually associate themselves with people that are on the same level or same point in life as themselves. If your cheating man is in a committed relationship with you , his friends should not attempt to hook him up with that new hottie down the street. His friends should respect you and your relationship.


However, your cheating man should be at a point in his life where he only surrounds himself with friends that respect his viewpoints. If this is not the case, then maybe you should question why he associates with these types of friends when they still continue to disrespect you and your relationship. Unless of course, he likes meeting those new hotties on the side. Then I would say that you have a very serious problem on your hands.

4 comments:

Main Account said...

Welcome...You will get through this!

T said...

Great post and very true! Who you hang around with and spend most of your time with says A LOT about you without you even having to open your mouth;-)

chanel said...

Wow. Lemme bookmark this site, lol...

Main Account said...

Hi T, Yeah, we all have to grow up. We can't change our family members, but we should be adult enough at some point to pick our friends wisely.

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